"Now abide , faith, hope, love, these three, but the greatest of
these is Love."

-I Corinthians 13:13-

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Love?
Hmmmm..
What is love??

"Love is patient, love is kind,
Love does not insist on its own way.
Love bears all things, believes all things,
Hopes all things, endures all things.
Love never fails."

- I Corinthians 13:4-8-

There is no person on earth who is that perfect.
I guess like all things in the bible,
it's the most idealistic and unrealistic definition.

Love is not a feeling.
It is defined by actions.

A man may claim he loves his wife, but yet walked the forbidden path of adultery.
He comes back, crying and sobbing, saying, Ï love you, incessantly.
That, is not love.

The wife, with the knowledge of what her husband did,
but yet opening her arms to welcome him back,
night after night,
continuosly being at his side,
but knowing there is another out there.
That, is love.

The parent who canes and beats his child mercilessly just because.
He sobs and begs as his child is being taken, claiming, Ï love you.
That, is not love.

The child, who pleads and begs to stay with his dad;
who hugs and clings onto his dad.
That, is perhaps, love.

Of course, one may comment that the wife probably has no where else to head to; or that the kid is afraid of a new environment. Whichever the case, be it silliness, stupidity, or forced by circumstances, it's up to one's own interpretation.

Someone once asked me, so if he were to have flings, would you be able to accept all that?

I guess if I really loved that person, I probably would. Grouchy though I may be, but at the end of the day, all would be forgiven, and being the silly girl that I probably am, all would be forgotten until the next one.

BUT
That is all assuming that his charming points more than cover up his ugly side, and he APOLOGISES! Gosh, if a guy does wrong and isn't willing to put down his pride and ego to so much as to utter a word of apology, then he is not worth loving.

Undoubtably, love needs work.
Lots of it.
If friendships need work, what more love - a relationship of a higher degree?

RAWR.
Random thoughts.

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The door has closed,
slammed right into her face
and yet she keeps pounding on it.
Is it even worth it?

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"If you can believe, all things are possible to him who believeth."

-Mark 9:23-